What an amazing writing you made again! You have such a way of exploring and describing that feeling of having a crush. The constant haunt you get from it because it mostly stays a crush (most of the time for the best). Having a crush is the best and the worst thing ever. You become someone for the person to at least look at you. It's embarrassing when you look back on how you acted. But who are we if we don't linger in the little pleasures of life? Thank you for this again, very well written and very comforting somehow. <33
Thank you Pauline for this lovely comment 🫶🏻 and so true agree with wha you said honestly having a crush is both good and a bad experience but it’s a fun way to romanticize life sometimes and it also boosts our creativity 😍
my pleasure! romantising never hurt anyone, but sometimes i like (especially when I have a crush) to take things as they are with flaws and the idea that I can't get them. It's like I can learn a lesson every time and be ready when the one for me comes. it's like the universe is preparing me for what's coming for me.
reminds me of the age of innocence scenario🌹another underrated gem is last night 2010 movie, the characters know what it feels like to let go. we’re so sensitive and deep we feel empathy and have such intense crushes that can’t become a blossoming relationship don’t they? love will attract us, we’re not supposed to chase it i guess, we grow our self love everyday & the universe will do the rest someday💍👰🏻♀️
That’s so beautifully put. I feel the same some loves are just too delicate to turn into something real, but they still shape us deeply. I agree, we don’t have to chase love. When we focus on growing and being true to ourselves, the right kind of love finds its way🫶🏻
Love hasn’t vanished and you’ll time will surely soon come, because you embody love and spring energy, always. The cutest whimsical writer of the app. 🌺📝⭐️
I love this subject. Having a crush is such a common experience yet in this emotionally avoidant culture it feels like the general mindset is "you shouldn't have one, it makes you pathetic".
To be fair, I do think that it's pathetic. But I also think that pathetic is part of the experience (I'm more avoidant that anxious when I form bonds so that explain the perspective).
Having a crush creates excitement, it changes your perspective - little moment becomes massive just because of a glance, it brings art to the mundane.
I love having a crush, I love the tension of a simple glance, I love the bending of time.
It feels like falling in love in the 5D, I'm into it, really into it.
When you are correctly regulated This One becomes the projection of the Ultimate One and you can literally use your fantasies for self-improvement !
What an amazing writing you made again! You have such a way of exploring and describing that feeling of having a crush. The constant haunt you get from it because it mostly stays a crush (most of the time for the best). Having a crush is the best and the worst thing ever. You become someone for the person to at least look at you. It's embarrassing when you look back on how you acted. But who are we if we don't linger in the little pleasures of life? Thank you for this again, very well written and very comforting somehow. <33
Thank you Pauline for this lovely comment 🫶🏻 and so true agree with wha you said honestly having a crush is both good and a bad experience but it’s a fun way to romanticize life sometimes and it also boosts our creativity 😍
my pleasure! romantising never hurt anyone, but sometimes i like (especially when I have a crush) to take things as they are with flaws and the idea that I can't get them. It's like I can learn a lesson every time and be ready when the one for me comes. it's like the universe is preparing me for what's coming for me.
Soooo true and that’s what my bestie told me last time just taking things as they are and you’ll never know what can happen 🫶🏻
Wishing the best for both of us, we will reflect on this one day and be thankful we took things slowly 🫶🏻
I loved this! I found myself in parts of what you wrote and it’s definitely a ride when having a crush.
🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻
reminds me of the age of innocence scenario🌹another underrated gem is last night 2010 movie, the characters know what it feels like to let go. we’re so sensitive and deep we feel empathy and have such intense crushes that can’t become a blossoming relationship don’t they? love will attract us, we’re not supposed to chase it i guess, we grow our self love everyday & the universe will do the rest someday💍👰🏻♀️
That’s so beautifully put. I feel the same some loves are just too delicate to turn into something real, but they still shape us deeply. I agree, we don’t have to chase love. When we focus on growing and being true to ourselves, the right kind of love finds its way🫶🏻
Love hasn’t vanished and you’ll time will surely soon come, because you embody love and spring energy, always. The cutest whimsical writer of the app. 🌺📝⭐️
You’re the cutest ily 🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻
I love this subject. Having a crush is such a common experience yet in this emotionally avoidant culture it feels like the general mindset is "you shouldn't have one, it makes you pathetic".
To be fair, I do think that it's pathetic. But I also think that pathetic is part of the experience (I'm more avoidant that anxious when I form bonds so that explain the perspective).
Having a crush creates excitement, it changes your perspective - little moment becomes massive just because of a glance, it brings art to the mundane.
I love having a crush, I love the tension of a simple glance, I love the bending of time.
It feels like falling in love in the 5D, I'm into it, really into it.
When you are correctly regulated This One becomes the projection of the Ultimate One and you can literally use your fantasies for self-improvement !